Mum’s methods

I wanted to share this account of a spanking that I had when I was about 11, I think. Regular spankings, or ‘smacked bottoms’, were given by my mother, usually in my bedroom, with me lying across the bed, feet on the floor. On this occasion, however, Mum decided to punish me while I was […]

Not too old

While growing up, I was subjected to many spankings. The most memorable was when I was a few days short of my 16th birthday. Until I was out of high school, my parents always hired a babysitter when they went out. A babysitter was also hired when my parents were entertaining. We were always dressed […]

That summer afternoon

When I was young, it was extremely normal to receive spankings as a form of punishment. My brothers and sisters and I always knew that we would be spanked until our bottoms were black and blu – both my mother and father believed in long, hard spankings that would make a child behave better. There […]

The comfort I sought

I grew up back in the 60s when, as you know, spanking was the most widely used form of discipline among parents. I lived with my father, mother, a younger sister and an older sister and brother. At the time of this particular story I was five, my younger sister three, my older sister 10 […]

At the end of the day

When I was 10 years old and my younger brother was eight, we were playing together and got into an argument about something. The argument led to a fight and the next thing I knew, we were rolling around on the floor, hitting each other hard. This was no little scuffle – I can’t remember […]

The kitchen bench

I was born and brought up in the south of Germany during the 70s in a middle class family, where the husbands worked hard and the women raised their children. Until I was seven years old, spanking was no more than a threat by my mother, with warnings such as: “I know what you need […]

Independence day

As a child, I was often packed off to my maternal grandparent’s home in the country. While there, I was allowed to get away with all manner of mischief and back talk. I went to bed when I pleased, ate what I pleased and said what I pleased. At about age four, I was becoming […]