Question I have a couple of pencil skirts which I love to wear from time to time. However, I have a problem when wearing them and need to go to the loo. My other skirts are no problem, I hitch them  and my usual petticoat up towards my waist the knickers and tights If I […]

Delia Replies I am really sorry for you Jessica. I wouldn’t have involved the police. I have always sorted problems myself as the courts will never give the judgment I would demand. But that is me not you. You handle it in the best way you can or feel comfortable with.

We are very fortunate in this country to have recently seen some serious legislative changes designed to protect the rights of LGBT people. This lets the whole of society know that whatever their prejudices, each and every person in this country is to be treated as a ‘first-class citizen. I say don’t be afraid to […]

Julia Replies Jessica, I was alarmed and sorry to hear about this horrendous act. A sweeping statement but, I really hoped that this rather “80s” behaviour had vanished by now. It sounds like you have managed to retain the upper hand as far as possible. However, you would do well to pursue things with the […]

Jemma Replies thanks for the kind words. police have been called but it is not been helpful. (no surprise there) no offence to any ladies in blue on here.

Dorothy Replies   I agree with Sarah…should have considered going to the police No one has a right to get away with that.! Hope you’re on the mend.

  Sarah Replies Hope you are feeling better. However, if you know who it was, and you have received medical treatment, then go to the police. It does not matter whatever about the gender of the people involved, this is a case of common assault. Even if there is insufficient evidence to prosecute, it would […]