Reply   Much of it is about striking a balance between being what you want and being concerned about how others see you. When we start our journey most of us are more worried about the reactions of others, hence the focus on ‘passing’ in one way or another. Then gradually we find our way […]

Fortunately, unfriendly attitude, coldness, and the odd insolent mirth to my face is the worst I have ever suffered, so far. However, it is in effect impossible to modulate their attitude and mindset. There’s no point even trying, so we might as well just act ourselves and not try to be something or someone else, […]

    Reply I understand that you relate to being androgynous. That’s a good default setting for anyone still exploring themselves and their life direction. Androgyny works in its own right as an image and identity, not just as a halfway house toward something more full-femme. So that comes with a lot of built-in leeways, […]

  I’m actually caring less and less about what anyone thinks. Except my wife, who is lovely and supportive… but married a boy. A) is this a reaction to being scared shitless of where I think this may be going? B) I think all my questions are A). All my other questions are pretty irrelevant, […]

Question I’ve started doing positive things recently to look more feminine. Grown my hair, getting face lasered… all fairly subtle. But I think I’ve opened Pandora’s box. I’m getting obsessed now with how I could pretend to still be a ‘normal’ guy if I do more feminizing things. I’ve lots of experience pretending to be […]

Reply I mean no offense to those of you that supply such coaching. However, having received coaching to supposedly help me as a male when I worked for the government, I found it never ever helped me cope with idiots. I have found that getting on with life to be the best outcome. On a […]

Reply It is nothing to do with being a woman, it is developing theself confidence to be yourself. As well as this it is a case of being able to cope with both the experts that will come into your life, and the pillocks too. It is about having someone who will help you develop […]