There are weeks when I’m not bothered and happy to be male, then I desperately want to be female to some degree. Luckily my wife knows about Jenny and my children are too young to care (at this point), so I can slip into some shapewear or outerwear for an evening or afternoon. My work […]

Don’t try to ‘manage’ or question it too much. Just go with what makes you happy and comfortable at the time. Mine is strange as sometimes I go through months as femme and other times I can swap overnight for a day. This I don’t understand but I’m slowly learning the only way to be […]

Reply I used to. I didn’t purge as that’s expensive, but I could go for months at a time without dressing while my clothes stayed in my wardrobe. When I didn’t dress I think I was kidding myself I’d finally got over it. After a marriage and a really long break from dressing, my femme […]

Question As long as I can remember I love dressing up all feminine but after many regretted purges I find the urge to dress returns. I have now resorted to purging my girlie things to the attic so I avoid the increasing expense of rebuilding my wardrobe. What I’m struggling with is the strength of […]

The idea of transition has crossed my mind a couple of times over the years, but I always know that it’s not for me. I cannot survive without both my personas Reply Just be comfortable with who you are anyway guys wear makeup so that option is always open. Reply I really feel down changing […]

Reply That is actually the best description of what I’m in too. Sometimes I can’t be bothered to become Sarah. Too much effort…etc, but I know I can if I want to. Sometimes I am happiest just being my male self. An ex-girlfriend told me she would never have suspected I had a femme side […]

However, I think having Jade as part of me makes me more empathetic towards them and others actually. I came to realise I don’t want to be Jade all the time but neither could I live happily without being her. My advice for what its worth is don’t rush to anything. It is ok to […]